4/5 stars
CW: sexual abuse and rape between a minor and an adult. Please don’t proceed if this could be difficult for you.
I resisted reading this book. I’m hesitant to pick up books with a ton of publishing power behind them, especially considering the potentially exploitative content of this one, but for some reason I felt compelled to read it. I’m also aware of the controversy surrounding Russell’s book in comparison with Wendy C. Ortiz’s Excavation (a memoir). My understanding is that while there are similarities, Russell’s book was many years in the making and that no plagiarism / creative theft occurred. Rather, the experiences of sexual abuse survivors are similar in many cases, so inevitably some similarities occur between the two books. I’d like to read Excavation, so I’ll be putting that on my TBR.
We follow Vanessa Wye from adolescence into adulthood as she grapples with the realization that the relationship she had with her much older teacher may have not been consensual but, rather, abuse. Vanessa is 15 years old when she takes a class with Jacob Strane, aged 42. Vanessa is precocious and quickly identified by Strane as a bright student, and soon after they meet his grooming process begins. Because Vanessa is intelligent beyond her years they bond over literature (specifically Lolita, which is mentioned countless times), leaving Vanessa to feel that she is very much part of a mature relationship. She never views herself as a victim, so how can she heal when she sees nothing to heal from? The book goes into the darkest places of this abuse, explicitly detailing scenes of rape (I’ll only call them rape) and the lengths of coercion that Strane goes to to keep Vanessa under his thumb.
The writing in the book is good, it’s fast paced and very easy to get into. I actually picked this up as an ebook from my library and started reading it just out of curiosity. When my loan expired I got the physical copy so I could finish it without waiting many weeks – it’s an addicting read. I almost always dislike books written in the first person, but in this case it worked well. We’re in Vanessa’s head as she navigates these experiences, and I can’t imagine it working as well from another perspective. Vanessa’s thoughts are critical to understanding that deep down, she knows that what’s happening to her is wrong. She is disgusted by Strane’s body and is often repulsed by his touch – we experience these visceral moments alongside her.
The story alternates between Vanessa at age 15, Vanessa in her early 20s, and Vanessa at age 32. It’s was fascinating to read about her experience with Strane at different ages of development. At age 15 she views the relationship as dangerous but exotic, in her 20s, when she’s of legal age, she views the relationship of more of a stereotype – old man with young girl. In her 30s, she’s working with a therapist to make sense of everything, and this man who has defined all of her adult life. The revelation that Strane has abused other girls is the catalyst for Vanessa’s self-examination.
I’ve read survivor’s accounts of the book, and many say it’s the first time they’ve seen themselves on the page. That Russell accurately portrayed the complexity of feeling like the abuse was consensual, but with the knowledge that there’s no way it could have been. For those who are comfortable, please discuss – I’d love to hear your thoughts.